Wednesday, March 19, 2008

Wordy Wednesday


Today is Wednesday, right? I never know. Took Matthew to his pediatrician today. Since we have no clue what might have caused the hives (and there is the possibility they are from the viral infection), she didn't refer us to an allergist yet. Besides, it is allergy season here and probably 3/4 of the population is in misery.

We did talk about his sleep though and she wondered if his itchy skin is partly to blame. She prescribed a med similar to Benadryl but with a more sedative effect. She said he doesn't seem to have good sleep hygiene (can't self-soothe back to sleep), so this might help him get some rest, as well as get into the habit of drifting back off on his own should he wake from the itching. I will try it for a little while, but I don't even like to take aspirin...so we will see.

Yesterday Matthew napped a total of about 50 mins. He didn't fall asleep until 8p, had a restless nigt, woke up at 5a...and maybe drifted off once again for about 20 mins until I got him out of bed. Because of the dr.'s appt, he missed his morning nap, so I put him down when we got home around 10:45. He didn't fall asleep until 11:00...but was back up at 11:21! I am not one to go into his room when he is supposed to be sleeping, but this kid had been up since 5 and needed to sleep! So I stood next to his bed for about 20mins and helped him back to sleep. This time he lasted for another 20 mins. Once again, I am not an advocate for going in...but I put him in bed with me, got him in a bear hug, and finally he slept for a decent amount of time.

There are so many questions about his sleep. We can do everything the exact same way 7 days in a row, and he can have good sleep some days and bad sleep others. And there could be a bunch of factors or just one big one. But there is a possibility that he is a kid who is really affected when he is learning a new skill. I've noticed that lately he is playing really extra hard...he just learned to throw a ball...and it seems as if he doesn't want to stop playing. REALLY doesn't want to stop. His brain won't rest. Even when I am rocking him lately, he is different than a couple of weeks ago when he was sleeping pretty well. He now seems distracted and doesn't want to engage in some of the soothing, pre-bed things we do. Instead he keeps trying to get up and point at his toys. Who knows what the reason is???!!!

I will say that God has been doing good things in my heart regarding Matthew's sleep. It is very difficult to deal with a baby who is tired and fussy but won't sleep...as so many of you know! But God has been teaching me patience, and I'm losing that anxious feeling that I have to "fix it." I am still very protective of his good sleep time because it is so rare...when we were laying together earlier and he had finally drifted off, I made up mean songs in my head about taking a big rock and a slingshot to the crow in a nearby tree who was cawing, the neighbor's little dog who was yapping, and the loud construction truck that kept passing our house!

8 comments:

taiwanbaby said...

my oldest was like that!!! if he was working on a new skill the sleep went out the window!! I can take cleaning the SAME mess everyday, gross diapers, or not being able to finish anything, but the not sleeping is a killer. It makes me a very very crabby mama. sending sleepy thoughts Matthews way.

Andrea said...

Our kids sleep with us ALL the time, for some reason or another. Can't sleep, Bad dreams, scared of the closet,It's my turn...All kinds of reasons. But then they get the sleep they need so... You do what ya gotta do.
This too shall pass. Enjoy it while you can. :)

A

Rebecca said...

Children are God's most effective ways of teaching us patience (oh, and husbands are right up there too.) :) LOL.

Someday all of this will be a distant memory and our boys will be driving the car to pick up their prom date... then we'll lament the days when we stood by their crib trying to soothe them back to sleep!!!

Hope that medicine helps Matthew with his sleep & itchiness. Poor lil man. Let us know tomorrow how he did.

Hugs, Rebecca

jen said...

Aw, Tish, you are such a dedicated mom - you deserve to make up mean and frustrated songs in your head when you want! But God made Matthew so adorable and perfect that you have to love him so much! Isn't it amazing! I hope the Atarax helps (not anthrax!). I am glad you are able to let go a little with the sleep issues. Sounds like Matthew is busy learning something new to dazzle his mama. Then he'll show it off to you and go back to sleep (I hope!)

Yvonne Crawford said...

You poor guys... I hope it gets better soon. I'll be curious to see how that medicine works and if it makes him sleep more.

Thanks for your support, BTW, I'm feeling a bit frustrated this week. :(

Yvonne

Sherry said...

You poor guys! No sleep makes this mama crazy and so I feel your pain. Have you tried blackout shades, spa-like music and taking away all views of the toys? Kobi sleeps pretty well but he needs his enviroment to be calm & super comfy. Lots of times (I've noticed) he will take a better day time nap when he's dressed for bed to. Im sure you've tried everything... hope it gets better (Consistently!) soon:)

Tara said...

Oh, sleep matters soooo much!! I spent 3 hours this morning trying to get my little one to sleep and back to sleep, so I feel your pain. And all she got was 30 minutes total. I really hope his sleep becomes more regular.
Tara

Just Us said...

Oh Tish..good luck with this. I feel your pain..Yu-Lin has always been a terrible napper and sleeper. I agree with Sherry that a totally pitch dark room and soft music helps him, but man, I'm feelin ya..I hope it gets better and pass it on to Yu-Lin.
Kristie